Chapter 21 - Grandparent Visitation
Odette’s visitation petition became the hardest case emotionally.
She had been close to Maisie before.
Hundreds of normal days.
School pickup.
Stories.
Cookies.
Hospital visits that were supportive.
One dangerous incident does not erase history.
It changes what history can safely mean.
The family court appointed a guardian ad litem to assess whether any contact would serve Maisie.
I wanted:
No.
Forever.
The guardian asked:
“What does Maisie want?”
At six, months later:
“I miss old Grandma.”
Old Grandma.
“Do you want to see her?”
“No.”
Both.
Children can miss someone and not want contact.
The court did not order visits.
Given my fitness as parent, Odette’s recent conduct, and Maisie’s expressed fear, her petition was dismissed without prejudice to future voluntary therapeutic contact.
Important:
No forced grandparent access.
Odette’s lawyer advised her not to appeal.
For once, she listened.
She sent no letters directly during probation.
Updates went through Amelia and therapists only if appropriate.
The first sign of change was restraint.
Not apology.
Not tears.
Leaving the child alone.
May you like
That mattered.
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