Chapter 13 - Ryan’s juvenile case
Ryan’s evaluation showed:
Acute grief.
Anger.
Attachment disruption.
No psychosis.
No intellectual impairment.
No pattern of cruelty.
No prior violence beyond ordinary school fights? He had one pushing incident two years earlier, minor.
He understood hitting with a brick was wrong.
He had not formed an intent to kill.
Prosecutors and his lawyer reached a juvenile disposition.
Ryan admitted an assault-based delinquency allegation.
The court imposed:
Twelve months juvenile probation.
Trauma-focused therapy.
Anger-management work.
School attendance.
No weapons.
No unsupervised contact with Lily.
Restitution limited to certain uninsured medical expenses, paid through me as parent but structured so Ryan participated symbolically through age-appropriate chores/savings rather than impossible debt.
No detention facility.
No adult criminal record.
The judge told him:
“Grief explains feelings. It does not give you permission to hurt another child.”
Ryan cried.
Then asked:
“Can I say sorry?”
The court said any contact with Lily would occur only if her parents and treatment professionals determined it was safe.
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For once, Ryan did not get what he wanted immediately.
That was important.
