Chapter 13 - Sophie’s cheek

Sophie’s physical injury healed quickly.
Emotionally:
Not as quickly.
For two weeks she refused to wear her flower-girl dress.
Then she refused white shoes because:
“Amanda wore wedding white.”
Children make strange associations.
We did not force correction.
Her therapist, Dr. Naomi Feld, focused on:
Safety.
Naming feelings.
Separating responsibility.
Sophie asked:
“Did I break the wedding?”
“No.”
“Because I took the phone?”
“No.”
“Because I said don’t marry her?”
“No.”
Then:
“You already didn’t marry her.”
“Yes.”
“Because she hit me?”
“Yes.”
I did not burden a six-year-old with:
You saved me from a multimillion-dollar theft.
That would turn vigilance into identity.
She found something.
She told me.
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Adults handled the rest.
That was enough.